How To Be A Role Model

In any human community there is always a role model of a man. He is the head of the pack, and dictates the pace. In the circle of the youth or at the colleges and in high schools, the students worship him as an the intellectual. In the neighbourhood or society the people consider him the rich and successful in business. And in the government or public service he is considered the decision maker or highly influential. He leads.

What Makes A man a role model? A role model is a successful man or woman. He is a go-getter and achiever. He must have achieved exemplary feats in his area of work. He must have faced challenges abd overcome them. He must have achieved his goals and desires. He must possess characters which are distinct and capable of commanding emulations. He must possess self-confidence and self-assurance.

He’s confident. He’s not afraid to face new situations. In fact, he takes pride in facing them. He’s successful in his chosen endeavours. whatever he endeavors to do because he knows he can do it and he will do it without a second thought.

The Role model is always willing to assist people around him and feels comfortable dealing with people. He must possess charisma to be able to draw people to himself and command charm to win respect and love. His communication ability must be good to be able to deal with friends, colleagues, family, subordinates and superiors.

What It Takes To Be A Role Model

To be a role model, you must first and foremost set your frame of mind to becoming one. This could be easy, unless you were a reclusive or loner guy all along and find it difficult to change. Your mind and feelings would play a big role in dertermining what you potray of yourself.

To be a role model people must see signs of security and and self-assurance in you. Uncertainty could hold people back and keep you from being accepted as a role model.

Determination and confidence plays an important role in being accepted as a role model. You also have to possess the traits inherent only in leaders. You have to be an achiever of your goals and aspirations and be able to exhibit exemplary feats. Therefore you should think, act, and appear like a role model.

Becoming a role model could be an intimidating task, however, it is a worthwhile one, and could be a starting point to being very successful in life.

About the Author

Abu Aremu is an online Personal Development coach and motivator. He writes on many topics including guides to positive mental attitudes and how to achieve greater heights in life. You can read life changing articles and resources from http://www.abuaremu.com/blog and subscribe to receive tips on how to have abundance in everything and improve your life by visiting http://abuaremu.com

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