Are You Taking a Hit Off the Ol' Validation Crack Pipe
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Copyright (c) 2007 Ainsley Laing Lust Love Is there a difference Thinking back to the last time you were newly in love, it will come as no surprise to you that the chemicals released into the blood when you were in the attraction stage are very different than those released later in the relationship.
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Slow dancing is one of the most romantic ways you can get close and intimate with your partner at a public place. Many girls love it when the guy asks for their hand and takes them to the dance floor. So keep these tips in mind and slow dance your way to love. Take the girl's hand: Escort your partner to the dance floor slowly and smoothly.
Signs of a Cheating Partner
Whether you've been in a relationship for a month or 10 years, the fear of a partner cheating is always there. You may be thinking, "My lover would never cheat, we have the greatest relationship". Well while you may think that is true your partner may not. We are going to help you with some signs that may indicate your partner is cheating.
Someone's Out There Just For You
I know sometimes that's just too hard to believe. You see someone interesting and you miss the opportunity to reach out. Or maybe you do talk, but don't get that all important number! Sure, it's hard to put yourself on the line. Maybe you've been stood up, and the thought of another rejection is just too much to bear.
I have a girlfriend who is a hooker.
No, not a prostitute. She has serious feminine charm and uses it to "hook" a guy's attention. In fact, with just a glance, she can send a "zing" that has guys go for the bait, and stay "on the line" for the rest of the night. Hooked!
I've even seen her "hook" guys from clear across the room. From that point, whether she was really interested in him or not she had him "wrapped around her finger." (Sounds like the female equivalent of a "master pickup artist", eh)
While she can attract and capture a man's full attention this way AND while she is fully aware of the little thrill this gives her, she is also aware that this is an unhealthy pattern for her.
She realizes that it is a cheap ego fix. She hurts and frustrates a lot of guys and it never has her feeling truly fulfilled. It's like a quick and fleeting little hit from the ol' VCP (Validation Crack Pipe)...
Of course, women aren't the only ones who do this. Among the men who take our AMP courses, I often see aspiring "pickup artists" who have worked hard to learn the skills to get women "hooked".
I used to feel run by my own desire to "hook" women as well. And as I started to become more self-aware, I noticed the Driving Need to prove that I was Good Enough to "get her" - to "hook her" - to "make her like me." As I explored this pattern further, I could sense the hollowness of achieving this goal.
In the same way that my friend was creating suffering for men, I could also see the suffering that I was creating, for myself, and for the women I was "hooking." They would get attached to me, and end up getting hurt, because they were just a means to an end for me... a way for me to take a nice toke off the ol' validation crack pipe.
In this case, a question to ask yourself is this:
Say you could get "your ideal girl" - she's "hooked." If you had that, what would it really get for you Be willing to take a hard, honest look at your REAL motives for relating with women (even if you don't like what they are), and you may be surprised at what you discover.
Write to me with your discovery! (And if you're in the Inner Circle Membership Program, post your insights there.)
If you want to start having authentic and rewarding interactions without hitting the VCP check out our FREE Special Report from AMP on the Ultimate Guide to Overcoming Inner Game Sticking Points with Women (illustrated with embarrassing pictures of me).
Get it now: http://AuthenticManProgram.com/
Bryan Bayer CEO, Authentic Man Program
About the Author
Bryan Bayer is co-founder and facilitator of the Authentic Man Program, committed to supporting men in having authentic, flourishing, kick-ass relationships with women. He specializes in helping men overcome their "inner game" sticking points with women. http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com
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