You Need To Omit This From Your Profile
Posted by: Vivian Johnson Posted on: March 31, 2008
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You profile should be fairly open and honest but there are something's that should be completely omitted from your profile!
You need to omit this from your profile... You have been clean and sober for 7 days. A potential love interest is really not going to be too impressed with the 7 days. Or the fact that fairly recently you've had a substance abuse problem. Unless that comes up, I wouldn't bring it up.
You need to omit this from your profile... You have 6 children by 6 different men. This speaks volumes about your sense of responsibility and commitment. The same holds true for men that have 6 "baby mama's". Very few singles will want to take on this obvious challenge. When the topic of children surfaces, just say you have 6...period!
You need to omit this from your profile... You are seriously looking for your 5th husband/wife. You just love being married! All of the eligible singles will take off like bats out of hell! Rightfully so! No one wants to be a guaranteed statistic.
You need to omit this from your profile... This is the year you hope to finally get off of the welfare and acquire much needed job skills. You have never had a career because you have been on the welfare your entire adult life. This also says a lot about you...and it is not all good...
Remember when it comes to your online profile, omission is not a lie. If someone asks if you have a college education simple "some" will suffice in the beginning. Now is not the time to tell how you kept dropping out of community college...that you were there "off and on" for the last 7 years and you still do not have an AA degree! Some things are just better off omitted...
About the Author
Vivian has been involved with online dating since it's inception! This is here main dating forum, since there is no other place in the world where you can have access to millions of eligible singles!
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